I gave this presentation at Search Engine Strategies Toronto a few weeks ago. There is definitely a place for companies to engage in Social Media – people talk about their problems all the time, and (ideally if you have a good product) your product offers them a solution. Social Media is Social – unlike traditional advertising it requires “social skills”.
Mistake #1 – Focus on Numbers

Mistake #2 – Hijaking Conversations
Join the conversation. Seems simple. People nod. Act like they get it. Then, they invariably try to turn the conversation to being about them. Join means participate actively. The Conversation means the conversation that is actually happening, NOT what you want the conversation to be about (which is probably your brand). Don’t be the annoying guy at a cocktail party who always tries to turn the conversation to be about himself. Nobody likes that guy. Join in and participate in what people are talking about – even if it isn’t all about you.
Mistake #3 – Spamming
See my previous post on social spam. Don’t be a spammer. Use social media channels correctly. If it is a message individually directed towards me send a DM. If it is a public message post it publicly. Always ask permission to market at people.
Mistake #4 – Irrelevance

Mistake #5 – Boring
Remember, people don’t really inherently care about your product and what you do. They care about a problem and solution to the problem. A blog about the silly things you do at the office or the history of your organization is probably not really that interesting for very many people (except for the people who work with you and maybe a few others). Instead, focus your social media efforts on providing legitimately valuable content. What are people actually interested in that pertains to your product?
Mistake #6 – Not Being Committed
Social media is a relationship – not a one night stand. Social media doesn’t begin and end with your advertising campaigns – it is a relationship that you build with your audience that continues over time. People will expect you to be present. Set clear expectations – it is ok if you are a small organization and are only going to be online during certain times. Communicate it clearly. If you’re account isn’t active let people know. It’s like posting the opening hours on your business – people won’t be upset if you are closed if you communicate clearly and are consistent.
Mistake #7 – Not Playing Nice
Play nice. Always be gracious – even if people make you mad. It can be tough figuring out how to respond – especially if you feel attacked. Be nice, be transparent, be kind, be courteous. Don’t be like Ryan Air.






























Great post. 🙂
I tend to see companies wanting to do this stuff and most start, however I find many want $$$ rolling in within a few days or weeks and most fail to appreciate this kind of marketing is about building a following based on trust. Its great when clients “get” social media and follow it through based on a specified action plan.
Execellent.
@Darren – I completely agree – social media is more about building relationships – success doesn’t always happen over night. Thanks for stopping by and sharing.
@Dora – Thanks 🙂