How to Say YES to Every Request


I hate to say no. I really hate it when someone asks me for something and I have to say no to them. I try not to say no, but the reality is that I can’t do everything for everyone. I have limited time. I have to focus on things that pay the bills.

A number of years ago I read some great advice about how to avoid saying no and how to say yes to everything.

When someone asks you for something give them a next step. Simple. Ask them to do something first.

Want me to check out your Facebook Page? Read these 3 articles and let me know how you can use the advice. Then I’ll take a look.

Want to “pick my brain”? Awesome… Review this report on social media and start ups and let me know what you think are your top 3 opportunities.

Want help getting a job? Great! Review my LinkedIn contacts and let me know 5 – 10 that would be helpful for me to introduce you to.

Instead of saying no say YES. Every time.

But give them something to do first.

This allows you to never say no but to filter out requests that will waste your time.

Most people won’t complete the follow-up. If they aren’t willing to invest their time why should you invest yours? 

Do You Hate Monday? Do Something Different.

Do You Hate Mondays blog post

If you hate Mondays you have the wrong job.

When I worked for a big company I dreaded Monday. My coworkers and I would get together Sunday night and watch Grey’s Anatomy and commiserate about the coming week.

I had a pretty good job. It wasn’t awful. I didn’t love it though.

Now I love Mondays.

I look forward to the possibilities and potential of what I can accomplish.

If you hate Mondays, start working on your escape plan.

Most Marketing is Insane.

Most Marketing is Insane blog post

The definition of insanity = doing the same thing and expecting a different result.

I look at a lot of social media plans, and one of the things that constantly surprises me is how long businesses continue to do something that doesn’t get them results.

They know it isn’t working.

Maybe they don’t have the path to success, so they continue to push along… getting no results from something that doesn’t work.

Sure, sometimes it takes time & consistency to get results (especially in social media). But if you post 5 similar status updates that get no engagement, you probably need to find a different kind of status update to post. Posting the same thing will probably produce the same result.

Don’t be insane.

Figure out what works and what doesn’t. Use the information you have to adapt your strategy.

Social Media Not Working? It is Probably Your Fault.

Social Media Not Working blog post

I evaluate tons of social media executions a year… for clients, people in our trainings or just for fun. While I don’t have all of the answers, one thing has become clear: Most businesses that don’t get results from social media don’t to it right.

Blogs are great examples. I heard a stat years ago that most corporate blogs fail. Most of the corporate blogs that I look at suck. Why?

  • The content isn’t strategic.
  • They have no strategy.
  • The headlines are mediocre.
  • They don’t post consistently.
  • The posts don’t have great visuals.
  • The posts aren’t structured well.
  • The content isn’t very interesting.
  • The audience isn’t clearly defined.

These are just a handful of reasons – most blogs suffer from many of these.

It is easy to say “we invested in a blog, wrote on it for months, but blogging just doesn’t work for us”.

No. Mediocre blogging doesn’t work for you.

The bar is higher in social media than ever before. If you don’t write great stuff, people won’t pay attention.

Do it well or don’t waste your time.

In almost every industry there are companies using every social media tool and getting great results. If you aren’t one of them you are probably doing it wrong.

It isn’t that social media doesn’t work. You aren’t doing it right.

Spend the time and effort to build a solid strategy and learn best practices.

Mediocre won’t get results and won’t cut it. You can’t afford to not be great any more.

The Secret to AMAZING Marketing Results

The Secret Amazing Results

If you do the same things the same way as your  competitors, you’ll get the same results as them.

You don’t get ahead by doing the same thing, the same way as everyone else.

How do you get ahead?

How do you get amazing results?

Do things….

  • Better
  • Faster
  • Smarter
  • Bigger
  • Smaller
  • Cheaper
  • Cleverer
  • Interestinger
  • Surprisinger

…than your competition.

If you want to get ahead, out-think, out-smart, out-execute….

For many businesses status quo is good enough. That won’t get you ahead.

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10 Things You Didn't Know About (Aboot) Canadians

Happy Canada Day! As a Canadian living in America, I wanted to clarify some of the things that Americans don’t know about Canadians…. Have something to add? Share in the comments.

1) Our Milk Comes in Bags.

Yes, it sounds weird and yes, it probably is. No, I don’t know why. You get milk in a 3-pack of bags, you put the bag into a jug and cut the corner. The milk isn’t poured into the jug, the bag sits in it and it is dispensed from the bag. Yes it is messier and grosser.

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2) We Don’t Think We Have Accents

When I moved to America (9 years ago) I was accused of having an accent, which I blamed on mid-westerners having accents. Now I laugh when I hear my Canadian family talk with their accents… which they deny having. Canadians don’t hear their accents, even those that have been “beaten over the head with the Canadian Stick”. Don’t accuse Canadians of having an accent. They will deny it.

3) Canadian Thanksgiving is in Early October.

Yes, we celebrate Thanksgiving in early October. Most other major holidays (Halloween, Christmas, Easter) match up with the US and we follow the same calendar. When I first moved to the US I found it amusing to convince americans that we celebrated Christmas in November.

4) We Don’t Have Black Friday but we do have Boxing Day.

Black Friday doesn’t exist in Canada… Our Canadian Thanksgiving holiday falls on a Monday, and shopping has nothing to do with the holiday. We do however, have boxing day, which is similar to Black Friday, but it is the day after Christmas. People line up at store to get deals, but unlike Black Friday, we don’t trample each other (because we are generally nicer).

5) We’ve Only Really Been in One War, and it Was Against America. And we Won.

In the war of 1812, started by America, Canadians pushed the Americans back…past their ‘White House’. Then we burned it…and most of Washington, under the command of William Lyon McKenzie who was insane and hammered all the time. We got bored because they ran away, so we came home and partied…Go figure..  Also, Canada has the largest French population that never surrendered to Germany and the largest English population that never ever surrendered or withdrew during any war to anyone, anywhere. Although you could argue that it is because we don’t really fight any more (again, because we are nicer).  (Verified by Urban Dictionary – I know, totally credible).

6) Our Money Is Called Looneys and Tooneys. Seriously.

Yes it sounds like a joke, but it is legit. The looney is a one dollar coin with a Loon on it, and I guess Tooney for the two dollar coin just seemed to awesome too pass up. Also, Canada recently eliminated pennies, although I still don’t understand how that works, since prices may still end in a penny. The lowest coin is now 5 cents.

7) When You Search for Canadian Things on Google You Get Awesome Results.

For example apparently searches related to Canadians includes:

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Also, a search starting with “Why is Canada” may end with “A Country” or “in the “NBA”. Shaking my head.

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8) Canadians Think American Beer Tastes Like Water.

I remember growing up, a commercial for American light beer with the tagline “If I wanted Water, I’d ask for Water!”. This is because American light beer has less alcohol than Canadian light beer. Although in researching this post, I can’t actually confirm this “Canadian Fact”, but know that Canadians believe this to be true.

9) Nobody Uses the Phrase “Take off – Hoser”

I don’t know what TV show that came from, but I’ve never heard anyone say it. Ever. Also, we pronounce Toronto as “Torono”.

10) We aren’t all nice.

Especially me. I’ve been called the meanest Canadian (although at the time I was informed that I was still nicer than most Americans, just not as nice as the stereotype).

10 Things you didn't know about Canadians


Creating a Hashtag for Your Event

Many event planners and organizers ask about creating a hashtag for an event.

What is a hashtag?

Check out this video to understand what a hashtag is and why you would use one:

How do I Create a Hashtag for an Event?

To “create” a hashtag you simply choose something and tell people to use it. There isn’t a hashtag registry or anything. Check that the hashtag isn’t already being used. The easiest way to do this is by searching on Twitter. Hashtags are typically used across Twitter, Instagram and Facebook.

Some Tips for Creating a Great Hashtag:

  • Avoid numbers – they confuse people
  • Choose something obvious
  • Shorter is better
  • Avoid words that are difficult to spell
  • If it is an annual event, there is no need to include the year
  • Remember, people only have 140 characters to use — the hashtag shouldn’t be too long or it will use most of your characters

Don’t Forget to Promote the Hashtag

Hashtags only work if people actually use them. Promote the hashtag:

  • Include it on your website
  • Include it in your social media mentions
  • Share it in pre-event emails
  • Mention it at the event
  • Include it in the event program
  • Put it on the nametags
  • Use it in the slide template

What is a hashtag?

How to Use a Hashtag for Your Meeting or Event

I spoke at a lot of events in September (over 12), and one of the top questions that I get is about hashtags – what they are, how to use them and how they work.  So it seemed like a good blog post…..

What is a hashtag or Tag or #

A hashtag is simply a way to denote the theme of a conversation.  For example, when I speak at PubCon, conference attendees use #pubcon to denote a tweet from the event.  This allows conference organizers to follow conversations about the event, or attendees (or those who couldn’t make it) to share their stories.

Essentially a # or hashtag is a way for people to tag the event that they are tweeting about.  While hashtags originated and are most commonly used on Twitter, they may be used on other social media sites, like Instagram.

How do I use a hashtag?

To use a hashtag in a Tweet you simply include it in your tweet.  For example, I may tweet “Avinash from Google just said that social media is 10% about the tools and 90% about the people #SESSF”.

Simple… you just include it in your post.

Why Would I Use a Hashtag for My Event

A hashtag allows you to track conversations from your event, engage with participants and can build awareness for the event overall.  Take the Tweet example I gave you above, if I hadn’t included #SESSF people wouldn’t have known where I was…. If I use a hashtag repeatedly, some of my followers will ask me what it is, and look for other Tweets from the conference.

It can be a great way to build brand awareness for your conference or event and by publicizing and promoting it you may also encourage and remind people to Tweet.

It also allows people to meet others who are at the conference, or follow event updates.

 How do I create a hashtag for my event?

There isn’t a hashtag registry, and permission isn’t required to start using one.  You simply choose a hashtag and publicize it.  The key is to make sure that before and during the conference people know what the hashtag is so that they use it.  Include it in all communications and on the cover of your show-book if you have one.

A good hashtag should be:

  • Short
  • Simple
  • Easy to remember and type
  • Not used by anyone else
  • Refer to how people refer to your event
  • Be the most obvious choice
  • Not include the year (why bother?)

Remember, Tweets are only 140 characters… the shorter and easier your # is to remember, the more likely people will use it.

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